memories

life is all about memories.. therefore, make them, cherish them, have fun with them!

n one more thing,........the word 'comparing'....... its endless once u start comparing urself with others or what u own compared to what others own......really.... so, dont try doing it. it will only hurt ur self esteem! i'll try not to do it too!! lalalalalala~~~~~ XD

pics

lesson

lesson learned today from some bomoh

- practice makes perfect....*wink*

why be good?

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time, we will reap a harvest if we do not give up...

Galatians 6:9

i wont give up....
say whatever u want.. its falling on deaf ears

lesson learned

lesson learned from an argument with a friend...

1) listen to other people's opinion and respect them.

2) even though people say something that hurts or disrespects u, dont diss or scold them back...

3) when u r angry with others, dont just burst out everything that u feel like saying. u really cant take back ur words... warn urself, calm down.....

4) people are prone to remembering hurts and prefer to keep them for a very very long time rather than when receiving compliments.. so, try ur best not to hurt others.

5) really think before u talk.. the mouth is the deadliest weapon that a human has.. the tongue is like a 2 edged sword.. beware..

6) dont judge ppl.. no one is perfect.. examine urself first.

7) if u dislike some one, or had an argument, pray for tat person..
it says in matthew 5.44 : love ur enemies, bless those who curse u, do good to those who hate u, and pray for those who spitefully use u and persecute u..

if u find the above verse a bunch of crap, mayb this will reason it out..

matthew 5.46 : if u only love those who love u, what reward(good) have u? do not even tax collectors do the same? (as in love the good ppl)

8) say sorry even if u were at fault or were not.. a sincere sorry may be one of the hardest word to utter. learn to use it more often then..

God, thanks for teaching me this lesson.. patience, humility, n trying to love others.. most of all,..........perseverance

jin li's farewell

(pics curi-ed from jane & jin li)
















jin li, holding the present i made for her.... :)








i really seriously wasnt posing for this....was going towards jane and some sexy pose came out unknowingly... XD

more pics

many many koi fishes...



family pic during reunion dinner

the only cny decor in my house

sakura flowers